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Yes, we love to hear the male’s perspective on women and how we can improve ourselves but going to such drastic measures as trying to think like a man is a recipe for disaster. This disastrous thought process will create a huge confusing ball of mess. Women! My ladies! Let me talk to you woman to woman about thinking like a man. We need to embrace our femininity and remain confident in it. There is nothing wrong with being emotional or soft or being empathetic or using your heart. These are the lovely differences that set us apart and add value to being woman. When we try to emulate men we are doing ourselves a HUGE disservice. There are certain definites that we accept and embrace from men such as the thrill of the chase. So if we think like a man that implies that we too begin to enjoy the chase. Huh! Since when was it ok for women to chase men!?! I mean you can do it but from what I’ve heard the results are overwhelmingly NOT in our favor.
Men, by nature, are aggressive, logical, not nurturing, etc., etc.,. Do we really want to THINK like them? I don’t think so. Instead we should simply love being, thinking, acting like the wonderful glamorous WOMEN that we are!
Sexy Feminine Confidence
Have you ever noticed a woman who wasn’t the creme de la creme in the looks department but she had ALL the men. Maybe she wasn’t a size 7 with a big rear and busty front (you know the look that we have allowed the media to implant in our minds of sexy and beautiful). Some women wonder what does this woman have that I don’t. CONFIDENCE! When we are confident in who we are and sure of SELF then our confidence shines as bright as the sun. Think about it! We love a man that is confident and sure of himself so why wouldn’t they want the same thing from us.
Now, I’m sure I’m going to catch a lot of flack for what I’m about to write but it’s absolutely true! Women are no longer being women but we still expect men to be traditional men. We can’t have our “independence” and still expect chivalry to be alive. Some women are so “independent” they emasculate the man. Then after he’s been stripped of his manhood she puts him down and talks about him. Not cool! We need to get back to the basics and embrace our truly God-given gifts, strengths, and weaknesses as WOMEN. There is nothing and I mean absolutely nothing wrong with being a woman just the way we are.
Let’s learn the difference between a ride or die chick and a lady, a wifey or a wife, his boothang or his woman. It’s ok to be assertive but no need to be overly aggressive. You can value yourself, him, and the relationship without emasculating him. We don’t need to change who we are or the way we think all in the name of getting a man. We have all we need and it’s called women’s intuition. Let’s learn to listen to it! Trust me it will save us from a world mess before it even goes that far.
Do you think you need to think like a man to have a successful relationship? Sound off in the comments…..
Until next time….